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I've Been Here Before


If i told you that every guy I’ve ever given my time to has fallen in love with me, would you believe me?

Probably not.

You would more than likely say that somebody has told me wrong. You would probably assume that my confidence needs to be brought down just a tad.

And then I would repeat myself and tell you again that every guy I’ve ever given my time to has fallen in love with me.

It’s not that I’m the prettiest girl in the world. It’s not that i have the best body in the world. Depending on how disciplined I feel like being, THAT can be quite the opposite. It’s not that I have tons of cash to buy a man like many women like to do these days.

It’s just that i have a good heart. I listen. I share. I support. Genuinely.

But you know what?

Falling in Love is the easy part, and it’s why I’m no longer moved by the man who merely falls in love with me.

Because as the history book of my life will reveal, I’ve been here before. Time and time again. Oh he’s in love...WOW!

But who will act on it? Who will do more than say it? asking for a friend...no, wait! I’m asking for my daggone self.

What i do know is that I have a promise. No more wandering in love. I’m crossing over into a land where love meets action. That’ll be somewhere I’ve never been before and although giants may greet me in that land; I am certain that I’ve already conquered them all...because this time I fell in love with a promise keeper. Abba.

My frog kissing days are over.

In Jesus Name.

-B.Reel


 
 
 

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ITMT has been the community I prayed for and received without noticing. When it comes to increase in faith, confidence, and being honestly transparent, ITMT was the place to be!! I’ve gained holy counsel, lifelong relationships and stepped into a part of myself I wasn’t aware was in me. It’s been a mental, physical and spiritual growth journey that I plan to remain with! Thank you BReel for your obedience, it lead to my obedience and so many more!! #obedience is greater than sacrifice!

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ITMT has been a huge blessing in my life from the very beginning. Over the past year, it has given me more than I ever expected or realized I needed. During my time of being single, I've learned important principles that are helping me become the woman God wants me to be. As I’ve worked on myself, I've started to see myself more clearly, just as God sees me. This has helped me trust my own thoughts and decisions more. I’ve also learned to listen to God's guidance when it comes to my love life. I’m really thankful for BReel, who has been such a fighter for the Christian single woman.

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